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There are a few questions you must first consider in order to answer this question:

Why do you feel that you should or should not be having sex? Do you believe that the pressure will be too intense and you would be forced to have sex? Or do you want to experiment with sex, but your moral or religious upbringing is against such a practice?

Contrary to what you may have heard, college is not a cesspit where you spend all day partying, drinking, and getting laid. For the majority of students, college is a serious deal, and while everyone likes to party every now and then, most people are focused primarily on their studies.

The pressures you experience will be based greatly on the people you choose to associate yourself with. If you are apprehensive about sex, it is unlikely that you would make friends with the campus whore squad. Furthermore, while college is often a forum for free speech and thought, there is more on people's lips than someone else's genitalia, you should not associate yourself with people who are going to make you feel uncomfortable.

Another important thing to remember is that if you don't want to have sex, don't put yourself in a risky situation. Firstly, do not go to the first big party of the year, and get totally wasted because your ability to make decisions will be impaired. It is also a good idea to go with a group of friends, who will protect you and won't ditch you to go have sex someone. Be careful of the date rape pitfalls, don't trust open drinks.

If you find someone you take a likening too, don't worry about satisfying your partner's sexual fantasies. Be honest, be upfront about what you expect from the relationship. Keep the channels of communication open, and discuss where you want your relationship to go sexually. Don't let your partner force you into something you are not ready for, it won't be an enjoyable experience for either of you. If it turns out that your partner is forcing you into an uncomfortable situation, leave and find someone else. [[If your partner forces you to have sex against your will, it is rape, and you should report it. However, if you voluntarily have sex, but regret it afterwards, it is not rape.]]

If you do not want to have sex, you are not alone in your conviction. Many campuses offer abstinence related support groups. In addition your campus ministry or religious leaders are great source to turn to for questions like these. They can offer you one-on-one support, in a safe, confidential setting. For a more secular approach, you can talk with your RA or other campus support staff.]]> http://www.freshmanfaq.com/index.php?action=artikel&cat=23&id=70&artlang=en Wed, 06 Dec 2006 22:39:14 GMT How do you resist wanting to have sex, when your an incoming freshman. (264 views)

There are a few questions you must first consider in order to answer this question:

Why do you feel that you should or should not be having sex? Do you believe that the pressure will be too intense and you would be forced to have sex? Or do you want to experiment with sex, but your moral or religious upbringing is against such a practice?

Contrary to what you may have heard, college is not a cesspit where you spend all day partying, drinking, and getting laid. For the majority of students, college is a serious deal, and while everyone likes to party every now and then, most people are focused primarily on their studies.

The pressures you experience will be based greatly on the people you choose to associate yourself with. If you are apprehensive about sex, it is unlikely that you would make friends with the campus whore squad. Furthermore, while college is often a forum for free speech and thought, there is more on people's lips than someone else's genitalia, you should not associate yourself with people who are going to make you feel uncomfortable.

Another important thing to remember is that if you don't want to have sex, don't put yourself in a risky situation. Firstly, do not go to the first big party of the year, and get totally wasted because your ability to make decisions will be impaired. It is also a good idea to go with a group of friends, who will protect you and won't ditch you to go have sex someone. Be careful of the date rape pitfalls, don't trust open drinks.

If you find someone you take a likening too, don't worry about satisfying your partner's sexual fantasies. Be honest, be upfront about what you expect from the relationship. Keep the channels of communication open, and discuss where you want your relationship to go sexually. Don't let your partner force you into something you are not ready for, it won't be an enjoyable experience for either of you. If it turns out that your partner is forcing you into an uncomfortable situation, leave and find someone else. [[If your partner forces you to have sex against your will, it is rape, and you should report it. However, if you voluntarily have sex, but regret it afterwards, it is not rape.]]

If you do not want to have sex, you are not alone in your conviction. Many campuses offer abstinence related support groups. In addition your campus ministry or religious leaders are great source to turn to for questions like these. They can offer you one-on-one support, in a safe, confidential setting. For a more secular approach, you can talk with your RA or other campus support staff.]]> http://www.freshmanfaq.com/index.php?action=artikel&cat=23&id=71&artlang=en Wed, 06 Dec 2006 22:39:04 GMT How do you resist wanting to have sex, when your an incoming freshman. (987 views)

There are a few questions you must first consider in order to answer this question:

Why do you feel that you should or should not be having sex? Do you believe that the pressure will be too intense and you would be forced to have sex? Or do you want to experiment with sex, but your moral or religious upbringing is against such a practice?

Contrary to what you may have heard, college is not a cesspit where you spend all day partying, drinking, and getting laid. For the majority of students, college is a serious deal, and while everyone likes to party every now and then, most people are focused primarily on their studies.

The pressures you experience will be based greatly on the people you choose to associate yourself with. If you are apprehensive about sex, it is unlikely that you would make friends with the campus whore squad. Furthermore, while college is often a forum for free speech and thought, there is more on people's lips than someone else's genitalia, you should not associate yourself with people who are going to make you feel uncomfortable.

Another important thing to remember is that if you don't want to have sex, don't put yourself in a risky situation. Firstly, do not go to the first big party of the year, and get totally wasted because your ability to make decisions will be impaired. It is also a good idea to go with a group of friends, who will protect you and won't ditch you to go have sex someone. Be careful of the date rape pitfalls, don't trust open drinks.

If you find someone you take a likening too, don't worry about satisfying your partner's sexual fantasies. Be honest, be upfront about what you expect from the relationship. Keep the channels of communication open, and discuss where you want your relationship to go sexually. Don't let your partner force you into something you are not ready for, it won't be an enjoyable experience for either of you. If it turns out that your partner is forcing you into an uncomfortable situation, leave and find someone else. [[If your partner forces you to have sex against your will, it is rape, and you should report it. However, if you voluntarily have sex, but regret it afterwards, it is not rape.]]

If you do not want to have sex, you are not alone in your conviction. Many campuses offer abstinence related support groups. In addition your campus ministry or religious leaders are great source to turn to for questions like these. They can offer you one-on-one support, in a safe, confidential setting. For a more secular approach, you can talk with your RA or other campus support staff.
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